They say that from hatred to love there is a step but it also happens the other way around, especially when your partner is loaded with unresolved resentments and deposits them on you as if you were a trash can even if you have nothing to do with it. True love is based on respect, so take note.
When he goes out of his way to make a fool of you
When he goes out of his way to make a fool of you in front of others no matter how you feel.
That desire to make others laugh at you, that need to expose intimate or personal things and that desire to discredit you do not speak more than their own feeling of inferiority which they seek to resolve through a false power.
Look for every mistake to criticize
Look for every mistake to criticize it and let you know that nothing you do is right.
Apparently he is unable to see or acknowledge your achievements because he may feel a bit envious so he tries to play with your self-esteem and your security by making you feel little capable. Realize that the complex is his and do not fall into the trap.
He gets angry when he sees you happy
He gets angry when he sees you happy and full of plans or projects trying to sabotage your moment. He knows that he is going to cause you discomfort, it is a way of making you feel guilty for being happier than him and indirectly he asks you to make alliance with his frustration even if the reasons are not yours.
He is extremely intolerant
He is extremely intolerant, raises his voice to the slightest disagreement and can even be humiliating. Undo moments of harmony by seeking to fight or argue at the slightest provocation. If you are too flexible and overly tolerant of this, he may hate your weak character and with his attitude he is asking you to put limits on him.
Avoid all physical and intimate contact
Avoid all physical and intimate contact with you and you feel rejected all the time.
There is nothing that deteriorates a relationship more than a lack of intimacy. This is fatal to your self esteem as you can feel unattractive and unwanted. You may have tried to get close to him by all means but he keeps rejecting you.
It is too pessimistic and lowers your spirits
It is too pessimistic and lowers your spirits with each comment in which you hope for motivation.
Try to demotivate yourself at all costs behind false realism. Apparently he wants to infect you with his fears so that you float in fear just like him and so that you don’t take risks. Fear you will get over it.
Look for prominence and try to cancel yourself
Look for prominence and try to cancel yourself, it takes your floor away or does not allow you to participate in a conversation. If his message is that you are a zero to the left, perhaps it is because he is very afraid that your brightness will overshadow him so he does everything possible to stand out and appear in the picture.
He makes very bad jokes and constantly disrespects you
He makes very bad jokes and constantly disrespects you by hiding behind a joke.
It is a subtle and indirect way of making yourself feel bad. He knows that playing the joker you will have no reason to reproach him for what he tells you so he has no censorship when it comes to jokes. Well I tell you that even if they are jokes, you must stop it.
He is unable to speak to you affectively
He is unable to speak to you affectively and there are no loving phrases for you. You can justify it by believing that it is his personality, although his coldness implies a lack of commitment to the relationship, perhaps for fear that you will hurt him. This causes him to put on a breastplate and decide to hurt you first even though you haven’t done anything.
He threatens you all the time
He threatens you all the time with ending the relationship or he victimizes himself by making you feel like the bad guy in the story. Maybe he breaks up with you all the time and then comes back making you responsible for the relationship emphasizing that he gives you a second chance. He does not accept his mistakes by blaming you for everything. It would be illogical for you to buy into the idea that the relationship only depends on you.